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Wednesday, December 21, 2011
Is there ever a good break up?
One that really makes it so both parts be cool with the other one moving on?
I`m not so sure about it, Im convinced both parts can pretend to move on, thats not where my doubt lays.
The part I`m doubting is that bort parts feels it would be totally ok if the other one found a new person to love and be loved by the very next day for example.
Lets not pretend that we are something we aint.
DMX and others says that if you love something let it go,
and its not the let it go-part that is bothering me.
I can tell anyone to go any given day!
But.. Its after the letting go that bugs me and most likely others.
Because even tho we know we have no right to, and even tho we dont own anyone,
we still dont want them to be happy with someone else, atleast not before we are!
And even tho you know you werent meant for eachother you still for some weird reason keep having that person in your heart for a long, long time.
Thats one of the reasons I really dont like "Lets be friends anyway".
For me, it more sounds like:
"Out of guilt I can pretend to be your friends for a while and maybe you wont whine so much about me to people"
or..
"If we are friends atleast I get to see her/him and talk to them every now and then".
It will still hurt like hell the day your ex finds a new guy or girl and introduces them to you.
Would you truly be happy for your ex if he/she got married to this new person?
Or would it remind you that you failed where someone else made it?
Can you really call yourself a friend to someone who you cant be happy for?
At the baptism in church of their newborn you sit thinking "It should have been me",
is that what friends do?
Take a minute - Think about it..
Found this song on Soundcloud, I love it Click here!
I`m not so sure about it, Im convinced both parts can pretend to move on, thats not where my doubt lays.
The part I`m doubting is that bort parts feels it would be totally ok if the other one found a new person to love and be loved by the very next day for example.
Lets not pretend that we are something we aint.
DMX and others says that if you love something let it go,
and its not the let it go-part that is bothering me.
I can tell anyone to go any given day!
But.. Its after the letting go that bugs me and most likely others.
Because even tho we know we have no right to, and even tho we dont own anyone,
we still dont want them to be happy with someone else, atleast not before we are!
And even tho you know you werent meant for eachother you still for some weird reason keep having that person in your heart for a long, long time.
Thats one of the reasons I really dont like "Lets be friends anyway".
For me, it more sounds like:
"Out of guilt I can pretend to be your friends for a while and maybe you wont whine so much about me to people"
or..
"If we are friends atleast I get to see her/him and talk to them every now and then".
It will still hurt like hell the day your ex finds a new guy or girl and introduces them to you.
Would you truly be happy for your ex if he/she got married to this new person?
Or would it remind you that you failed where someone else made it?
Can you really call yourself a friend to someone who you cant be happy for?
At the baptism in church of their newborn you sit thinking "It should have been me",
is that what friends do?
Take a minute - Think about it..
Found this song on Soundcloud, I love it Click here!
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- I Can..
- Alone at New Years eve?
- The year..
- Tic-toc-tic-toc..
- Religion..
- This is me then..
- Little Butterfly #3
- Seriously its too cold outside today!
- Cherish what you have!
- Oi!
- The people that you dont connect with!
- The blessing of a child.
- I stumbled across..
- The breakin up part..
- The things I should do, but just wont do right now!
- little Butterfly
- The Call part 2
- For my friend "L" - I wish I could change facts!
- You are great!
- The love of a mother..
- My grandfather..
- I wont let you go..
- I belive in..
- Oh im so sorry..
- You know what?
- Insights..
- The guiltgame..
- The force of your own mind!
- Belive it!
- Unspoken Words..
- Death Penalty.. Right or wrong?
- Is Christmas over now?
- What am I doing up?
- Inspiration and persons giving it to you..
- Where to find the love of your life?
- Every thug needs a lady..
- Christmas as a kid..
- Being strong for someone else..
- Celebrating Christmas?
- Christmas..
- How to find love..
- and somewhere inside..
- When someone suddenly changes..
- It cant have been me he ever wanted!
- The right to judge someone..
- The beauty we all have..
- Have u noticed the ad here from Unicef?
- The kids that never really got to be children..
- The anger noone talks about..
- My first love..
- Readers from all the world..
- The importance of being YOU!
- Thursday morning..
- When can you laugh again?
- Follow up..
- Relationships..
- Is there ever a good break up?
- To all of you..
- A young brother lost..
- One of those days..
- Abortions..
- Christmasspirit..
- They say its the inside that counts?
- Todays introduction..
- Did you ever stand up?
- Did you ever..
- My friend Fia..
- My friend..
- Pride..
- Colors..
- Had to show you guys..
- Have you ever..
- I´m rich!
- Lovely morning..
- Contè
- Confused chatting..
- Ladies, let me introduce you to:
- Just a little..
- Yesterday..
- Life..
- The Call..
- Tupac and Biggie
- Its soon christmas..
- Dont call me no mo´..
- Whats your plans for today?
- Sunday morning..
- Friends online.. Bobbe!
- Nope..
- Im supposed to party tonight..
- My kind of game
- We all have them..
- Music..
- Parenting
- Egypt, my beloved Egypt..
- So here we go..
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